A writer for Entrepreneur made big news in the media last week when he penned a 4,000-word missive on his personal blog about being let go from the magazine. Did he make some compelling points? Yes. Was it an absolute gossip-fest that you couldn’t peel your eyes from? Sure. But no matter how much anyone enjoyed reading it, the writer certainly won’t enjoy the aftermath. As difficult as it is, in the aftermath of an unjust firing or layoff, it’s important to exercise grace and maintain your composure for three key reasons.
First, you can’t take it back. In today’s digital age, anyone can be a broadcaster, but it doesn’t mean just anyone should. Remember that if you post a snarky note on your Facebook, twitterbash or pen a tirade for your own blog, anyone who wants to see it can and if you change your mind and delete, it can often still be found. And it will likely be found by a professional reference or future employer. Better to just not go there. If you’re that angry and tempted - slowly step away from the computer and your Blackberry. Unplug for a few days and gather your composure. You will be grateful that you did.
The second incentive you have to “speak no evil” after you’re let go from your job is that your behavior is a direct reflection of your resume, your capabilities and your value to a future employer. Our reporter will likely have a hard time finding a job for another mainstream media outlet because of his behavior. Although he may have felt that he was serving justice by exposing his side of the story, future employers won’t see his tirade in the same light. They will likely view him as a loose cannon, emotional and lacking discretion. And no one wants someone like that on their team.
The final reason you have to keep it classy after your leave your job is for pure and simple mental health reasons. Leave your past in the past! If your objective is to move on from a negative work environment, then you gain nothing by drudging up negative thoughts from that old negative work place. This is hard to do. You’re going to feel emotional and you’re going to think broadcasting that to the world is going to be cathartic, but it won’t. Remember the big picture – you’re the bigger person. Let career-karmic retribution take care of the office villains who put you in that situation. You’re on to bigger and better things and your renewed willpower and grace will ensure you continue to go far on your professional track.
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